Ugaling langit

This would give you guides on how to control your
emotions towards your better-half, friends,
officemates and all the people around you,
especially your "boss". The rules of
practicing "ugaling langit, ugaling kaaya-aya"


#1 Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang
magalit. Pag naunahan ka na ng galit niya,
tumahimik ka na lang muna.


#2 Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa. Pag hindi
kayo sumagot o pumatol, titigil din daw ang taong
nakikipag- away sa inyo.


#3 Ang taong galit, 'bingi.' If someone is angry,
wala raw pinakikinggan, so, don't try to explain and
fight back. Hindi ka niya iintindihin dahil wala
siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.


#4 Ang taong galit, 'abnoy.' Ayon sa pastor,
Biblical daw ito? because the Lord said when He
was crucified, "Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi
nila alam ang kanilang ginagawa." Modern term for
these kinds of people are abnoys, so you better
not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.
You should also know and realize that the persons
who make your day bad are jewel, because you
need them for you to mature
Hangga't andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig
sabihin, immature ka pa. God will not take away
those people; it's for you to take away your bad
feelings towards them. You'll know na mature ka
na pag dumating 'yung time na hindi ka na naiinis
sa mga taong ito because you have learned to
accept them and to have patience with them.


#5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself
na, because of this person, "I will grow mature,"
and that
DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA
MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.